Tuesday, April 23, 2013
Prayers for Baby L
Please keep one of our little babies in your prayers. Tiny baby L is not doing very well. He is one sick little boy. We know that God is the ultimate healer and pray that He works a miracle in little L's life.
Sunday, April 21, 2013
Week 24
Week 24
A Full Sunday
Cassie and I both had off this past Sunday for the last
time. We went to Berea with Margie and the three hands on inters at the IMB.
Berea is a more traditional African church. Church starts at 9am but we were 6
of about 20 people in the building when the service started. By the end of the
service the building was full with about 100 or so people. The service starts
out with lots of worship. One lesson we learned quickly the first time we went
to Berea is that you don’t stand still when you worship. Worship usually lasts
about 45 minutes. Then we have the greeting. First anyone who is at the church
for the first time is asked to stand up and be acknowledged. Then we have our
greeting time. No one stays in their seats; you all move around and greet
everyone. You know it is time to return to your seats when the music for the
next song starts. The next song is always ‘The Love of Jesus is So Wonderful’.
The entire congregation gets into the song and does the motions. One of the
younger guys in the church always gets up front and dances during this song.
This is followed by announcements and at the end of announcements all the
birthdays for the upcoming week are acknowledged. We do sing happy birthday.
Then we have offering time. Whoever is leading the offering time gets up front
and says offering time and the congregation responds blessing time. Then the
leader says blessing time and we respond with offering time. During the offering
a song is played and you go up front to put your offering in the basket. Don’t
walk up front though; you must dance! The service ends with the scripture and
message. There is so much that I have learned about true worship by going to
Berea. This Sunday after church we went to Bruma Market. This is an outdoor
market and I was able to get my last few gifts for people at home. It was a fun
filled day!
Baby A’s Adoption
On Monday this week one of our big babies left for adoption.
Baby A was the entertainment upstairs and we were sad to see him leave but so
happy that he was going to meet his forever family. The hand off went very well
we were told. We continue to pray for A and his new family. So blessed to have
met this little guy!
Apple Pie Party
When I first got here there was a volunteer here from the
Netherlands and she made a really good Dutch Apple Pie. We got lessons and the
recipe from her before she left and wanted to try it out ourselves. Lisa came
over to the flat and Cassie, Katy, Lisa and I tried our hand at the pie. It was
a night full of laughs to say the least! Our pie looked nothing like the one we
remembered. In fact our pie was not baked in a pie pan because we did not have
one big enough. Instead we baked it in a 4-inch high casserole dish! It tasted
pretty good but not really like pie. Despite our fail we did have a good time
together.
Elephant Sanctuary
On Wednesday morning Margie took some of us to the Elephant
Sanctuary about an hour and a half away. We spent an hour and a half up close
with the elephants there. We groomed them, took them for a walk, got to feel
different parts of them such as their ears, trunk, and tail, fed them and got a
big kiss from them! We were also going to pay to ride them but unfortunately
some of them were being temperamental and we were not able to do that for
safety reasons. It was so neat to be so close to these big creatures. When we
walked them we had to put our right hand out and they put their trunk right in
your hand. It was a crazy slobbery feeling. I have to say that getting a kiss
was my favorite part. They put their trunk right on your check and blow a
little air out it at you. It is muddy and messy and tickles so much! Not many
can say that they have been kissed by an elephant though.
Goodbye Party
When volunteers leave the management sets up a goodbye party
usually during teatime at 10am or during lunch at 2pm. This week we had a
goodbye party for Cassie, Margie and me. It is a time to celebrate what
happened while we were here and we also get thanked with a small gift. Food is
always involved as well. This week we had cheese curls, a party staple around
here, lemon pie and milk tart. All was delicious and we were given our send off
so to speak. Crazy to think that 6 months is almost up!
Welcome 3 New Small Babies
We got a few new babies this week. On Thursday afternoon
Baby L was picked up from the hospital at just 2 days old. Jo, one of the new
volunteers, had the honor of giving this little guy his name. He is a healthy
baby and I am excited to get to know him a little better in my last few days of
work in Small Babies. On Friday two more small babies were picked up. I have
not heard names for both of them yet. I work up there again on Tuesday and I am
excited to meet them then! So many babies are moving in!
Baby D’s Memorial
Friday at 10am we had a memorial service for Baby D who
passed away on Sunday evening. We held it upstairs in the house and not in the
memorial garden as it was raining outside. The service started with Pastor
Cheryl opening with scripture and a word of prayer. Then Nadane read scripture
and a poem. The poem was all about why children have to die and the conclusion
was to make heaven a little more beautiful. We moved into singing two songs,
Stronger and Amazing Grace Our Chains are Gone. Baby D’s verse was read, Psalm
139:14 and we closed in prayer. It was a 30-minute service. Baby D was a little
peanut and capture the hearts of many who came to visit the Baby House. Many
tears have been shed but we must continue to remember that she is home and in
her Daddy’s arms. We have been incredibly blessed to have been part of her
short life here on earth and we rejoice in the day that we will meet again in
heaven. You will always be loved and missed Baby D.
Boma Restaurant
On Friday Margie took Cassie, Katy and I and some of the
girls from her office to dinner at the Boma. The Boma is a buffet that has lots
of different varieties of food and they are also known for having a few game
meats as well. They did not have game meat for us that night. It is getting too
expensive they told us. It was a pretty cheap buffet at only R115 or about
$12ish. The food was all great and it was nice to have a night out as well. We
also took this opportunity to say goodbye to Margie as she leaves this Monday.
There will never be a way to thank her and express how much she has meant to us
while we were here. She is just an incredible woman of the Lord and willing to
help out anyone in need. She will be dearly missed!
Odds and Ends
- This
week Cassie and I have started to watch the full series of Anne of Green
Gables. We are about half way through it and plan to finish it up this coming
week. It has been a perfect ending to our nights this week.
- Our
sticky note calendar gets smaller by the day and Cassie and I get a little more
anxious to be home with each piece of paper that we pull down!
- I
have realized that one of the things that I am really going to miss here is
teatime. I have grown to LOVE teatime. South Africa loves teatime. It is so
important here to take time out of your morning and enjoy a cup of tea. While I
have not grown a liking to tea just yet, I do enjoy the break each morning that
is more or less required of you. So if I happen to stop everything that I am
doing for a few minutes around 10am at home you know I am just taking my tea!
- Wednesday
and Thursday next week I start packing and Friday, Saturday and Sunday mark my
last days of work. Monday will be one more day to sleep in and say goodbye
before heading to catch that air-o-plane at 6:55pm!
Well I have ONE week left in South Africa. I can’t believe
that 6 months have passed in a way. At other times it feels like I have been
gone for closer to 6 years. I am getting very anxious to come home and see
everyone again. Wednesday and Thursday are my last days off so that is when my
suitcases will come out and I will start packing. It won’t be long after that
and I will be on the plane home. I am looking forward to making my last week of
memories here and loving the babies with millions of hugs and kisses.
See you in a week!
Emily
Sunday, April 14, 2013
Baby D
Our Baby girl D went to be with Jesus tonight. We are rejoicing that she is with her Father and being held tonight. Please be praying for all of us at Door of Hope this week as we celebrate the short little life of this precious girl. Many tears have been shed and many more are to come. I love you Baby D. I am so blessed to have been able to hold you and cuddle you and kiss you while you were here on Earth. I can't wait to be reunited in heaven one day!
Week 23
Week 23
Days Off
The first three days of this week I had off. I still don’t
do much on my days off. With Internet at the baby house now I will spend a
little bit of time online. I also try and set up skype dates with people at
home. I was able to skype with some great friends and family on those days and
did some blog reading. I also spent time reading and just doing nothing while
itunes played. When the toddlers were outside I went to visit with them for a
little while because they are just too darn cute not to. Also Toddler K just
yells my name when he sees me walk past the window and I can’t say no. I have
also started to go through my pictures and put them in different folders to
print off right when I get home. This has been really overwhelming to say the
least! I have so many pictures and love so many of them. Needless to say when
you see me I will have loads of pictures on me to show off of my kiddos. Lazy
days off are the best!
Small Babies
This week I spent the week working in small babies. Right
now small babies is a pretty easy schedule. Babies are either fed every three
hours or every four hours. Right now all of the babies are on the four-hour
schedule except for my baby M, he is a three-hour baby. This makes for a pretty
easy day with most of it spent by the babies sleeping. There can be lots of
down time but when they are up, everyone is up. It has been funny because when
I have been skyping with friends I say how easy it is to take care of 10
newborn to 4 month olds. Wonder if this will ever come back to bite me in the
butt one day! One of the small babies was born without an anus (an opening for
his poo to come out of). He has had surgery to form an anus that exits near his
stomach right now and to form an anus in the proper spot. Soon all of that will
be joined together and he will be a normal baby with a normal bum! For right
now all of his poo collects in a bag off of his stomach. This week one of the
aunties taught me how to clean and change his bag. I am practically a nurse
after this lesson! The day after my poo bag lesson I got my first chance to
clean the bag. Baby L is a great baby and for that I am thankful, there are
some not so pleasant parts of this whole procedure for him but he is a champ
and just goes with it. I was successful and he was good to go for the morning!
This week I also dressed the babies is some cute outfits for a little photo
shot. I thought that this would help our day along and I wanted some nicer
photos of these little ones. Needless to say they turned out adorable and many
of them will be on my walls at home very soon!
Birthday Parties
This week we celebrated 4 of our big babies 1st
birthdays! 4 of them turn one year old this month. One of them, baby A, is
going to be adopted soon so we had to have the party at the beginning of the
month so he could be part of it. It was a fun celebration of these four little
lives. We sang happy birthday and ate some sweet treats. It is always so funny
to watch the baby’s reactions when they try cake for the first time. Many of
them pull a face but usually end up liking it at least a little bit. We also
had the typical party foods of marshmallows and cheese curls and juice. I am
really going to miss birthday parties here when I am at home. We can’t wait to
see what God has in store for them in this next year.
Two New Volunteers
We got two new volunteers this week. Both of them have been
here before. They came together both times. They will be staying for 6 weeks.
They are from the England. It will be fun to get to know them the next two
weeks.
Family Pictures
On Saturday Cassie and I both had off and decided to take
some family pictures. Our family pictures include us and our favorite babies.
Cassie and I both dressed up and put the kids in nicer clothes to take
pictures. I had my favorite babies S, S and M in my pictures. Cassie had her
favorites L, T, S, L and A. We were able to get some really nice pictures of
each other and our babies. It was lots of fun and really crazy trying to get so
many kids to look at the camera and smile. Most of my favorites are the candid
shots that we got during the process. Love having the opportunity to get some
nicer pictures with my favorites.
The Countdown!
I am so excited
to say that in two weeks I will be boarding an air-o-plane as the kids here
would say! I have LOVED my time here but I am getting pumped to be at home
again. I just miss too many people! I have to believe that I will return to
Africa one day. Maybe back to South Africa and maybe a different country. (I
would like to travel with someone this next time though!) I just don’t feel
done with this beautiful continent. The most asked question of what will I be
doing when I get home has still to be answered yet. I know that God has it
worked out and things will fall into place. For at least the first two weeks I
will be trying to readjust to the time change and a different schedule and
living in a house without 30 babies. One of the other volunteers, Cassie, is
leaving on May 2. It has been great to process going home together. We are
roommates and this week we made a sticky note calendar for our countdown. Each
night before we go to bed we take another sticky note off the cabinets. It is
an exciting time of the day. We really look forward to going to bed because of
this and I am ashamed to say that sometimes we find ourselves curled up in bed
at 8:00pm. To our defense we always read in bed and never get in bed before 8
because that would just be crazy. Please continue to pray for the rest of my
time here and for the transition back in just two short weeks!
Prayer Request
I have mentioned before that one of our babies is in the
hospital to have surgery. He is still in the hospital and this will be going on
3 weeks I think. We pray that he gets better fast and is home soon. We miss his
smiley face and precious giggle. I pray that he is back before I leave so that
I am able to say goodbye to him and get a few more pictures of his sweet face.
We miss you S and pray that you get better fast and come home. We love you so
much baby!
A Few More Rambling Thoughts
This week as I was getting excited to start packing and get
back on that airplane and it felt like time had stopped and I would never be
doing either of those activities, I flashed back to my first week here. I spent
that week in bed not feeling well (bad combination of jet lag and altitude
sickness) and thinking that I was completely nuts that I was going to be here
for 6 months. I looked through the 30 or so printed pictures that I brought of
friends and family at home and cried. I read every page in the calendar of
daily encouragement that so many of you helped to make and cried. I sustained
myself on a diet of bread, apples and water and cried. And finally I turned to
scripture because that was the only thing left to do. I read through Genesis
and Exodus in about 3 days. I cursed the devil and mankind while reading
Genesis for causing this world to fall and that I was sitting I a strange bed
half way around the world from everyone and everything that I loved. It was
during reading Exodus that I realized my life was not so bad. I was only going
to be ‘wandering’ for 6 months and not 40 years. I could do this. And I have!
This week as time stood still and all I wanted to do was get on that airplane I
remembered those same Israelites and the same 40 years they wandered and I also
remembered to when I got here. I had 3 weeks left! I had survived 5 months and
these people survived 40 years. Surely I can make the next 3 weeks and be just
fine. And guess what, we are now at 2 weeks! We are going to make it. This week
I also started to reread the same book that I read when I first got here,
Redeeming Love. It is an incredible story and one that I recommend. This will
be my 3rd or 4th time reading the book. I learn something
new each time and I am excited to see what I learn this time through and what I
can take home with me from the story. So I am kinda reliving my first few weeks
here and I hated those weeks! What a strange thing time can do to us.
Just two weeks now!
Emily
P.S. URGENT PRAYER REQUEST- Please be in prayer for one of our small babies. She
has not been doing well this week and went downhill fast today (Sunday). Two of the
volunteers ended up doing CPR on her while waiting for the ambulance to come. I
was not upstairs for any of this but it has been scary to hear about it from
them. We don’t know anything else right now. We love you baby D. Get better
fast and come home.
Monday, April 8, 2013
Week 22
Week 22
Toddler K
This little guy has found his way into my heart big time
recently. I love this little guy. Toddler K is the oldest here at the baby
home. He is three years old and the big brother to all the other kids. He can
be trouble but most of the time he is just cute and looking for a little love
and attention. Whenever the door to the flat is open he finds his way inside.
This past week Monday I had the day off and K walked into the flat. The first
thing he saw was my computer. He walked right over to it and started to wave
and say hi. This boy has been on skype just a few times! After I explained that
there was no one there right now we put on some Disney songs and had a dance
party just the two of us. We ended our music session with a little sing along
to God is so Good and this boy has the halleluiahs down! I always feel like a
celebrity when K is around because he just loves to say my name over and over
again when he sees me. Even if he does not see me I can hear him yelling my
name from outside sometimes. The way that his faces lights up when you say hi
back is priceless. He really is a special kid. We continue to pray that the
right home opens up for this little guy. He is one I am going to miss a lot
when I leave.
Small Babies
This month I am working in small babies some. I have really
enjoyed the days I have had up there already. There is not much entertainment
like with the toddlers but sometimes that change is nice. I have also loved
getting to hang out with and hold my boy M so much! I am giving him all the
love that I can in the next few weeks before I leave.
Baby M’s Verse
All of the babies when they come in have a verse that is
picked to be their verse. It is posted above their bed with their name and
picture. I love to read the verses each day as I wake the babies up and many of
us use it as our prayer for the baby each day. My baby M just had his sign put
up above his bed with his verse on it and I could not believe the verse that
was picked for him…Ephesians 5:1-2! That was the theme verse at Geneva last
year. I first began to apply to come to Door of Hope in March 2012. I never
sent in my application then for several different reasons. I am so glad that I
was home last year because I would never have met K and the Wallington family
and I would not have worked at Geneva again either. I loved my summer at camp
last year and sharing it with Andrea was just incredible. I was able to learn
so much and be stretched out of my comfort zone. When I came to Door of Hope
for this time it felt right. This verse has been one that has played in my head
many times every day, especially the dearly loved children part of it. This has
now become my prayer for M every day. When I wake him up I get to say dearly
loved child, Jesus loves you so much. To spend the summer being reminded that I
am a dearly loved child and to get to pray that over the baby that I was able
to name is only God. He does have it all worked out because I am his dearly
loved child and so are each one of you.
The Kiddos
I thought that I should share some stories or tidbits about
these little hooligans that I get to spend all my time with here. J
- Toddler
T is terrified and hates Toddler A with a passion. Toddler A is small in size
but loud and not afraid to wrestle for the toy that she wants. She just has to
let out her yell one time and Toddler T is on the floor crying. He has been
beat up a few times because Toddler A knows that he does not like her and takes
advantage of it. It is really funny to watch.
- Toddler
S knows that she is my favorite and it is bad when I am down there right now.
She has to be in my arms and on my lap all the time. I don’t mind but the other
kids do. Just this week I was sitting at the table writing on their charts
after lunch and she just came and put her head down on the cabinet/gate and
just looked at me with her big puppy dog eyes and whined just a little bit. You
can be sure that I finished those charts quick and scooped her up for some
loving.
- This
past Thursday when I was in toddlers it was really cold outside. We had to
spend the whole day inside because it was just wet and cold. We got out some
books to read and at one point I think I had about 7 kids on my lap reading
stories. SO much fun!
- Since
the weather has been colder the footie pajamas have come out. There is nothing
better than ending the day with snuggles from kiddos in footie pajamas.
- When
we watch Barney movies the kids love to sing the I love you song at the end of
the movie and give each other hugs. It is so sweet to watch. They really do
become family to each other.
- Big
Baby N does not like to eat. She just cries and cries when it is cereal or baby
food time. Her latest trick though is so clever. She pretends to sleep! You can
be feeding her and she is crying and all of the sudden she will stop, throw her
head back and close her eyes letting all the food drip from her mouth. She is a
stinker that one.
- A
few of the big babies have started to take on the name literally. All of the
kids get weighed each Monday and last week Baby boy N tipped the scales at a
whopping 25+ pounds at 11 months old. He is a big baby!
This and That
- Wednesday
all three of us left had the day off. We planned a ride back from The Glen to
do some grocery shopping and also decided that we would grab lunch there. Lisa
ended up at the baby house and we got a ride to The Glen as well as lunch with
her. It turned out great. We made it back just before the rain started to get
heavy and the hail started to fall. I would also like to note for those of you
who know my picky eating tendencies that I had a wrap that had caramelized
onions in it and I ate them. Just another one of those times that things in
Africa don’t seem to scare me as much!
- There
was an article in the newspaper here about baby M being found and coming to the
baby house. My baby is already famous!
- Mango
anything is my favorite right now. I cannot seem to get enough mango.
- Pray
for Toddler S as he is in the hospital right now. We miss his smiling face
around here and want him to get back to us as quickly as possible.
I came across this quote the other day when I was getting up
to date with some of my blog reading.
I know God will not give me anything I can't handle. I just wish that
He didn't trust me so much. - Mother Teresa
I just love this. Seems to just fit some many areas of my life right
now. One of the questions that everyone wants to know is what will you be doing
when you get back. I still do not know the answer to this. My plan is to apply
for teaching position again for this coming school year and hopefully find a
nanny position or something fun like that for the summer. I have to remind
myself daily that it is all in God’s hands, that I am his dearly loved child.
Well we are down to just three weeks now. Ready to come home but I
will be enjoying the next few weeks of lasts here in South Africa.
Three Weeks,
Emily
Monday, April 1, 2013
Week 21
Week 21
Baby A, Baby T and Baby T turn 1 year old
Three of the babies turned 1 year old this past week. They
all have birthdays within a week of each other. We had a party this past
Wednesday for them and that was lots of fun. I was working in big babies and
the party was downstairs in toddlers but we all took turns going down to the
party. The kids love birthday parties as they get sweets like cupcakes, candy
and chips as well as juice that is not watered down. This time the party took
place over lunch and the sweets were lunch instead of just food. They really
liked this. It is lots of fun to celebrate birthdays here and in April we have
four birthdays to celebrate!
My Baby, Baby M
Volunteers that are at Door of Hope for 6 months or longer
usually get the opportunity to name a baby. I have been waiting for my turn and
this week Monday I was able to name our newest little guy. He is baby M and one
of the most beautiful babies I have seen. I am not allowed to post his name on
the blog for privacy reasons. I am so in love with this little one and visit
him almost daily to give him some snuggles. He has quickly made the way into
the top three on my favorites list. I can’t wait to love him more this month
and see how big he grows! I will have many pictures of him to show off when I
get home.
Toddler X and Baby M Leave
Two of our girls left us this past week to go to another
children’s home. There was some legal stuff that was still happening with the
parents and this place will be able to work better with that. It is a very nice
home that they went to. We miss them greatly here and are getting use to the
new dynamics with two of our babies gone. We continue to pray for their
situations and rely on God for the plans that He has for their lives.
Pizza at the Farrs
Brady and Candy and their family had a friend come visit and
stay with them this past week. Candy really wanted her to be able to meet us
and some of the young adults from their church so she put together a pizza
party and game night. It was a lot of fun to play games with 20 or so of us
there. We also had some great homemade pizza thanks to Candy. A nice night out
of the baby house and meeting some pretty fun people.
Gold Reef City
This past Thursday I was able to go with the Farrs to Gold
Reef City. Gold Reef City is an amusement park here in Joburg less than 15
minutes form Door of Hope. I am not a huge fan of big rides so I was not sure
about going but decided to take them up on the offer and at least I was out of
the baby house. I ended up having a lot of fun and even surprised myself with
some of the rides that I agreed to go on. We started off easy with some of the
family friendly rides and then went on some of the roller coaster. The park has
a fear factor rating that goes from 1 through 10. The first coaster we went on
was the Runaway Train, which was rated a 7. It was not bad at all. We ended up
riding it twice because there was not line and a smooth ride. Then nearby was
the Anaconda, which is rated a 9. There are hills and upside loops and sideways
loops and speed. I had watched it go a few times knowing that a few of them
were going and was thinking about it. I ended up in the small group that
decided to go. The ride ended up being fine. I never got super super nervous
about it either. The rest of the day everything was very tame compared to that
ride as well. The only other big ride that we went on was the Jozi Express,
which is rated 7. We also watched one of the shows. It was a fun day and I
surprised myself with what I was willing to try. For some reason things like
this and zip lining which I would be terrified to do at home just are not as
scary in Africa. Who would have ever guessed!?!
Easter Sunday
Another holiday to celebrate in Africa…Easter! I had a great
day here in South Africa celebrating our risen Savior. I was able to go to
church At Berea Baptist Mission Church since I had the day off. Then I went to
Rosebank market and spent way too much money! Travis and Eric you better
appreciate your African gifts because I spent way too much money on you! Andrea
I need to get you a little more because of this problem! At the market we first
got lunch in a food court area. I went to a Mexican vendor and got a burrito.
An Easter burrito! Then we walked around the big market and starting our
spending. By the end of our time I was basically out of money but I did get
some good deals and got a few more gifts for people back at home. When I got
back to the baby house we had an Easter egg hunt for the toddlers. This is
something that the volunteers decided to do for them. We got 50 small chocolate
eggs to hide all over the yard. The kids were getting their diapers changed
when we went to hide everything. We then showed them what they were looking for
and sent them out. We put a bucket in the middle of the yard for them to put
the eggs in when they found them. The bigger ones caught on right away. The
little ones it took more time. Once all the eggs were found, or so we think, we
sat the kids down and they each got some of the chocolate eggs. They loved them
and were a big mess. My Sunday clothes might never look the same again because
of those little hands and lips all over them. It was so much fun to celebrate
with them through the egg hunt and reading the Easter story. I have loved
celebrating holidays over here but I am getting really anxious to be home and
celebrate with family again!
New Schedule (Last one!)
I got my last schedule for the month of April. I will be
working in Small Babies and Toddlers. Toddlers is my favorite department so I
am glad about that and I have my Baby M in Small Babies that I am able to love
on this way as well. I could not have made a better schedule for me! I now know
how many days I have to work yet while I am here and how many days I have off.
Sunday
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Monday
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Tuesday
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Wednesday
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Thursday
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Friday
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Saturday
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31 Off
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1
Off
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2 Small
Babies
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3
Off
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4 Toddlers
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5 Small
Babies
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6 Small
Babies
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7 Small
Babies
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8
Off
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9
Off
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10
Off
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11 Small
Babies
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12 Small
Babies
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13 Off
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14 Off
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Please pray for one of the volunteers, Candice, who had to leave
unexpectedly for medical reasons. She has been sick for most of the three
months that she has been here and is only getting worse. Her best option is to
be home to get everything figured out and have family by her side as she does.
We are all going to miss her so much and the rest of my stay will not be the
same without her. We do know that she will be better off at home though. Pray
that the doctors can get everything figured out and that she can find some
relief along the way. We love you girl and are going to miss you something
awful.
Less than a month!
Emily
Swaziland and Kruger National Park
Swaziland and Kruger National Park
Over the weekend we (me, Katy, Candice, Cassie and Margie)
went to Swaziland and Kruger for a short vacation. The whole reason that we
went was because my passport was going to expire before I left. I had to leave
South Africa and re-enter to get re-stamped and be able to stay until April 29.
We made a full weekend out of it and had a blast among many adventures!
Day 0- Friday, March 22
We spent the night at Margie’s house on Friday night. We
were going to have to leave early in the morning on Saturday and she is a half
hour away from us. That would have added an extra hour to her day of driving
and this way we could all get a few extra minutes of sleep. We started the
weekend off right with a trip to McDonalds for dinner. I think it might have
been the best McDonalds that I have ever had. We then went to her house and
went to bed right away, which turned into later than we wanted. We were all
getting excited for what the next day was going to hold.
Day 1- Saturday, March 23
On Saturday we woke up around 2:30am to get ready for the
day and left around 3:45am. It was about a four and a half hour drive to
Swaziland. We made it to the boarder and went through the process of crossing.
First you drive through a gate that means you are leaving South Africa. Then
you have to stop, get out and go inside to get your passport stamped that you
are leaving the country. You get back in the car and drive to the next stop and
get your passport stamped to enter Swaziland. Then finally you get in the car
and drive through the boarder and officially enter Swaziland. Once we got in
Swaziland we went to glass factory that we about 5 minutes from the boarder. We
had breakfast since it was around 9:30am. After breakfast we walked around some
of the shops and through the store of the glass factory. They were not doing
the glass blowing so we did not get to see that but we were able to get some
really neat things made from recycled glass. We then headed off to a big
African market. This market was very big. There were 126 different places to
shop. It was set up football field size with all the shops around the boarder
and room for parking in the center. It was lots of fun and I was able to get a
few things. After the market we went to Pick n Pay to get some things for
lunch. We just bought some snack things for lunch. Then we continued another
two hours driving through Swaziland to the place that we were going to stay.
Along the drive we learned more about Swaziland. Swaziland has the highest percentage
of the population with HIV or AIDS. About 1 in every 2 people is infected. We
also learned more about the king and his 33 wives. It was beautiful along the
way as well. There were many mountains and places that you could just see for
miles. Along this drive we also had some fun sharing love with others. We were
on the road and driving behind a pickup truck that had 5 people sitting the bed
of the truck. We waved and were laughing at each other for some time. Then
Margie handed me her Pringles and a bottle of lemonade and told me that she was
going to pull up along side of them and I had to gently toss the treats to
them. We also found some donuts to give them and put everything together in a
plastic bag. Margie pulled up along side of them and I tossed the bag over and
it made it in the back of the truck. They loved it! It took all of .2 seconds
before the bag was torn open and they were enjoying the treats. Something that
you could never do in the States but was so much fun. We also pick up some corn
along the way to share with people. It is common in South Africa and in
Swaziland to find people grilling corn on the side of the road. The corn has
the husk already off and is hot from the fire when you buy it. It is usually
5Rand (50cents) to get an ear. We tried some and really enjoyed it. It has a
popcorn taste and is crunchy. We were able to pass these out to people we saw
walking along the side of the road. And there are lots of people who just walk,
as it is a very poor country. Everyone that we met has soooo happy to have that
ear of corn. Each one of them we watched in the rearview mirror and every last
one of them started to eat right after we pulled away. We all talked about how
it was one of our favorite parts of the trip. The see the pure joy and true
thankfulness was incredible. Along our drive we drove through a part of an
animal reserve and saw some warthogs, giraffes, and different deer creatures.
It was so neat to see. We also saw monkeys on the side of the road many
different times throughout the day. We even had to stop for a cow crossing. One
of the not so nice things about the drive was some of the roads. Many of the
roads, main roads included had numerous speed bumps on them. Not very nice. The
speed would also change all the time and it does the same thing in South
Africa. It would start out around 60km/hr (36mph) and then go up to 80km/hr
(48mph) then 100km/hr (60mph) and finally reach 120km/hr (72mph) only to go
back to 100km/hr and then 80km/hr and 60km/hr and the cycle would just continue.
We finally made it to our destination by the middle of the afternoon. We stayed
at the Mananga Country Club. We had three rooms, two of them had two double
beds and one had one double bed. Candice and I like to sleep with fans running
and be really cold so we shared a room and Katy and Cassie shared a room while
Margie took her own room. Some of the perks of our rooms, a TV, air
conditioning, a double bed all to our selves, a huge bathroom and the list
could go on. We loved where we were staying. The grounds were also beautiful.
There are many animals that run wild such as zebras, different kinds of deer,
monkeys and a giraffe. They had a golf course, swimming pool and restaurant all
on site. The first thing that we did when we got there though was go to meet
Hobs. Margie has told us many stories about Hobs and we were excited to meet
him. Hobs is a zebra that is wild but allows you to pet him as long as you feed
him. We picked up some carrots and got some great pictures of us feeding and
petting Hobs the zebra. It was really neat. After spending some time with Hobs
we moved into our rooms and went to the restaurant for dinner. We enjoyed
dinner while Margie decided to go back to her room to get a head start on sleep
since it had been a long day of driving and the next day was going to be the
same. After eating we walked back less than half a mile to our rooms in the
dark. Thankfully we did not run into any animals along the way! We went to bed
early and dreamed about what was still to come the next day.
Day 2- Sunday, March 24
On Sunday we woke up around 5:30am to get ready to load the
car and leave between 6:30 and 7am. We all agreed that it was one of the best
nights sleep we had maybe ever had. While we were getting ready the power
decided to go out and did not come back on before we left. This is common but
it still proved to be an inconvenience. Once we were ready we went outside and
fed some of the monkeys and went to visit Hobs one more time. Then we got in
the car and headed for the boarder 5 minutes away. We made it through the
boarder fine and found out that the date on my visa will allow me to stay even
though the passport stamp does not match. They said that I will be fine and I
am trusting them even though this is Africa. Continued prayers for the trip
back would be much appreciated. Once we were across we headed toward the
Crocodile Bridge entrance to Kruger National Park. We stopped by the sign to
take some pictures which you might have seen on facebook and then headed in for
our adventure. We spent the whole day driving around in the park. Margie told
us that if you wanted to drive the entire park you would have to drive everyday
from when the gates opened to when they closed for over two months. It is a big
place! We saw lots of neat animals but did not spot all of the big 5
unfortunately. We did see the cape buffalo, rhino and elephant but did not see
the lion or the leopard. We also saw giraffe, warthog, hippo, zebra, waterbuck,
wildebeest, impala, spiders, turtles, lizards, and birds. It was a really fun
day. Some highlights were seeing
the some giraffes try and scare an elephant. It did not work so well and the
elephant ended up scaring the giraffes away from the watering hole. In order to
use the bathroom you just find a spot without other cars and animals and quick
do your business outside praying that a rhino does not come up behind you. We
had come great and really funny conversations in the car and that helped to
make the car ride not so bad. When it was close to closing time we headed out
of Kruger and started making the 4 and a half hour drive back to the baby
house. We stopped for some McDonalds for dinner and just kept on driving. When
we were about 45 minutes from the baby house things got interesting. We were
going 120 km/hr or 72 mph. It was 10:15pm. We were in a road work zone and
could see flashing lights in the left lanes. Margie got over to the right lane
and before we knew we were in water. Margie was able to keep the car under
control and we did not hit anything and nothing hit us. When we finally came to
a stop we saw that the situation was not good. The car would not start and the
water was around a meter deep. All of the flashing lights turned out to be tow
trucks. We sat in the car for about 15 minutes and no one came to help us or to
see if we were all right. Margie decided to roll up her pant legs and go talk
to them herself. When she went up to them they asked her what the problem was.
Well our car happens to be sitting in a river on the highway if you didn’t
notice! They said that they could tow us out and about 20 minutes away was
Margie’s office where we could get a new vehicle. We got towed out and the
driver came over to talk to us more. He told us that it was going to be very
expensive and asked if there was anyone we could call to get a rope tow. Margie
called a guy from her office and he came out with another guy to help us. We
had to wait about a half hour for him to make it out to us. They were able to
rope tow us back thankfully. We talked while we waited and just said over and
over this is Africa. Only here would the tow trucks be waiting on the opposite
side of the road for cars to get stuck so they could make money. They were not
blocking the lane of danger but leading people to it so that they could experience
a good night of business. We also decided in the car to stay the night at
Margie’s and have her bring us back to work the nest morning. We saw Sunday
night end sitting on the highway waiting for a tow…
Day 3- Monday, March 25
Once we finally made it to Margie’s house it was 2am. We had
to get up around 5:30am to shower and get ready in order to be back at the baby
house for work at 7am. Margie lives 30 minutes from the baby house. We stopped
for McDonalds (again) and made it back just in time to work. We unloaded the
car and I was getting ready to bring my suitcase to the flat when I heard my
name being called from small babies. There was a little guy waiting to be named
and I was going to be the one to name him! So despite the lack of sleep Monday
morning turned out to be pretty neat. I will write more about my little guy in
the next blog that I post.
Overall it was a great weekend and we had lots of fun. We
cannot thank Margie enough for all that she has done for us and will continue
to do for us. Her life if very busy right now as she is getting ready to come
to the States for the summer and then she is being transferred to London.
Please keep her in your prayers as she has been such a blessing to all of us at
Door of Hope. She will be greatly missed around here.
Until next time,
Emily
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